Ettajane, 51

I like to be comfortable, but that doesn't generally mean sweats or jeans. Although I like elegance, I prefer my hair pulled back into a comfortable pony tail.

I enjoy all types of music except rap. I enjoy visiting zoos and seeing the animals; however, I'm not a pet lover. I enjoy getting to know people, but I don't appreciate large crowds.

I love the sun. I don't like to be cold. Fishing makes me cry. I'll go with you to soak up the sun and listen to the sounds of the river, but I won't hold a rod that has been cast. Since it seems that 90% of males enjoy fishing, I thought I should give that disclaimer upfront.

I don't know if that describes me or not. Most of my life seems to be about going to work, coming home, trying to get chores done and be a helpful mom with homework, working on church callings and volunteer work, then collapsing into bed just to start all over before the sun gets up. Sometimes it's difficult to remember who I am in the mundane day-to-day busyness.

A reprieve from the mundane is what I'm looking for. Ultimately, I'd love to find the love of my life, but between now and then I'd like to meet others, talk to adults, and enjoy the journey.